The quality of sex of a girl directly depends on her arousal, without it she will not be at the peak of pleasure. Therefore, men should know where the erogenous zones of women are. Their stimulation will increase your partner’s orgasm and allow you to liberate her.
All experienced lovers try to find particularly sensitive places in order to achieve maximum excitement of the chosen one.
Basic erogenous zones
Your partner’s orgasm depends on how much time you give to her erogenous zones. If you do everything right, you will learn from experience what a squirtle is in women. If there is enough stimulation of the main sensitive points during orgasm, the girl will ejaculate. It is what is called a squirtle. It is difficult not to notice, it is a sign of complete satisfaction of the partner.
Nipples and breasts
The whole chest is responsive to caresses. You can gently squeeze the mammary glands with your hands, stimulate your lips, or use your tongue. The size of the breast has no effect on its sensitivity, so caresses are suitable for all. You can tell that you are doing everything right by the state of your nipples – at the moment of excitement they become harder, swell and increase in size.
The nipples themselves can be stimulated with your fingers and tongue. Such caresses release the hormone oxytocin, which triggers uterine contractions. Some women may feel uncomfortable when their nipples are touched. Mammary glands are designed by nature to nurture offspring, so touching them during sex can cause negative feelings.
A small number of women can experience orgasm from breast stimulation alone. Be guided by your partner’s emotions, if she is responsive to touch in this area, do not forget about her caresses during sex, especially when approaching the end of coitus.
The Clitoris
The clitoris is home to 8000 nerve endings. It is rightly called the main erogenous zone. Caresses on this part of the body transmit impulses to the brain, causing a feeling of pleasure. But you should not touch the clitoris excessively, because the effect of such touches will be the opposite. Unskillful handling, rough pressure will cause rejection, soreness, and a decrease in arousal.
It is best to stimulate the clitoris in the following ways:
- With the lips or tongue during oral sex;
- with fingers moistened with saliva or lubricant;
- light fluttering touches;
- stroking with hands or special toys.
Inexperienced lovers do not know how to handle the clitoris and do not know where it is located. Finding the center of arousal is easy:
- spread your partner’s hips;
- Find the fold between the labia and labia minora, called the hood;
- underneath is the clitoris.
If you do not have enough experience, you can judge the correctness of clitoral caressing by its appearance. At the moment of arousal, it pours blood, increases in size, becomes brighter.
Small labia
Fondling the labia minor can be together with the clitoris. Sexologists call this zone a sleeping zone, as you will have to stock up on patience to cause pleasant sensations from touching it.
Some girls do not feel anything when stimulating the small labia. If your partner is one of them, you can move a little higher to the U-spot (urethra). Its stimulation will cause a pleasant sensation.
Vagina
Nature does not provide many nerve endings inside the vagina and birth canal. This is done on purpose, so that the birth of the child does not bring a woman more pain. But stimulation of this area with a penis or fingers still brings pleasant sensations if done correctly.
Many nerve endings are just behind the labia, where the petals of the clitoris are located. The insertion of the penis is a particularly sensual moment of coitus for the girl. Also inside the vagina is the G-spot, which is directly connected to the outside of the clitoris.
You can feel it with your fingers and stimulate it with your fingers. In positions where the man is behind you, the most sensitive parts of the vagina are in contact with the penis.
Scientists are still arguing about what kind of orgasm a woman has: whether it can be divided into clitoral and vaginal. Some sexologists argue that the vagina is not sensitive enough for stimulation of its walls to help achieve full satisfaction.
Hidden or wandering areas of high sensitivity
Some of the most arousing places on a woman’s body will have to be sought out, as they are not developed in everyone. One girl may be quickly turned on by kisses on the neck or stomach, and another they will be unpleasant. There is only one way out – to study the body of your partner to find areas of high sensitivity. Most often responsive to caressing the parts of the body where the skin is thinnest.
Head
The massage of the scalp brings pleasurable sensations to women more often than to men. It brings girls in a state of slight excitement, relaxes them. You can turn on your partner during oral caresses by putting the palm on her head, but in this case you should remember that you cannot press and limit the freedom – it will lead to the opposite effect.
You can use the sensitivity of the head during the classic sex, giving it a slight “spice” in the style of BDSM. To do this, a man needs to pull lightly on his hair during coitus, and the hair tied in a ponytail can be wrapped around his hand. Stick to the rule: don’t pull on individual strands.
Ears
Stimulation of the auricles will please a woman if you choose the right technique. Lobes and the back of the ear are the most responsive to caresses. You can stimulate them with your tongue, nibbling lightly, or simply warming them with warm breath. You should not kiss your partner on the ear, as this only deafens her, causing irritation.
Men feel a rush of tenderness from stimulation of the ears. It turns them on if the partner bites the lobe during erections.
Lips
Some men outside of bed rarely kiss their chosen women because they get turned on by the process. Kissing can have a special meaning for each couple:
- They accompany sexual intercourse;
- help increase trust in the couple;
- switch to a sexual mood.
The technique of kissing depends on the partners; each couple likes a different way of stimulation. The options may be as follows:
- Soft nibbling of the lips;
- light touching;
- assertive tongue kisses;
- Moving from light touching to tongue penetration.
Change the method of stimulation of the lips can be according to your mood: for a romantic evening will suit light touch, and for a passionate night deep and assertive technique. In addition to kissing, you can use stroking the lips with your fingers. The touch should be very light, a finger can run along the lips themselves or their contour.
Neck
Touching the neck is sure to give your partner goosebumps. Statistically, they excite 100% of women. This part of the body is covered with very thin skin, which can be stimulated by the lips, flying touches of the fingers.
Most often, men use kisses on the neck to give their beloved a pleasant sensation during foreplay, or to play with it lightly in normal life. You can stimulate this area during sex, together with friction and other caresses the result will be amazing.
One way to bring the orgasm closer is to use hot breath warming the back of your neck, or to lightly press on this area with your palms. This stimulation is available in positions where the man is behind you. It is ideal to touch the neck in “doggy style” or with the option when the woman is lying on her stomach.
Belly
This place is worth paying attention only if the woman has no complexes about her figure. Otherwise she may consider touching the belly as mockery, or instead of liberating herself she may start to behave in a more reserved manner. From complexes suffer both fat ladies and thin women. To caress this part of the body you should start when you know your partner well.
You can bring new sensations to the sexual contact, keeping on the edge between the feeling of tickling and arousal. This is accomplished in a number of ways:
- Explore the area with your lips and teeth (nibble it lightly);
- Gently stroke the soft skin;
- During caressing go up to the chest and down to the lower abdomen, but do not cross the line.
Watch your partner’s reaction, if she becomes constricted and starts to feel shy (straining her muscles, trying to turn away), you should move to another part of the body – the neck or chest. In such a situation, choose an area that will 100% provoke a positive reaction in your beloved.
The buttocks and inner thighs
Men touch the inner surface of the thighs and buttocks during intercourse in one way or another. Because of the close proximity to the main erogenous zones, stimulation of these body parts will cause positive emotions in a woman.
A light touch on the inner surface of the thighs may cause an unpleasant tickling sensation. Therefore it is better to replace gentle strokes with massage movements, they will ensure the flow of blood to this area, to the genitals.
The buttocks themselves should be gently stroked, alternating with patting. You can add kissing and caressing the area near the anus. These caresses are suitable only for partners who have been together for a long time and trust each other.
How to find individual erogenous zones?
Some women are aroused by any tactile contact, but this is the exception and not always pleasant. In girls, additional erogenous zones are on:
- feet;
- big toes;
- palms;
- elbows.
You can find them only by experimentation. Your partner may respond to the caresses of the buttocks, but remain indifferent to the stimulation of the small labia. Try different options and watch the girl’s reaction.
If you guessed it and chose the right technique of caressing, she will increase respiration, a shiver in the body or goosebumps on the skin, blurred look or eyelids closed.