A topic about which little has been said is the erogenous zones of men. They, like women, are sensitive to caresses – this is an important part of sex. However, the general opinion is that men do not need additional stimulation. This is a big misconception peculiar to inexperienced women.
What are erogenous zones?
Special areas of the human body, exposure to which causes an increased sex drive. There are two types: basic (in different people of the same sex they usually coincide) and additional – peculiar only to this person.
Basic
- The glans of the male penis.
- The foreskin of the penis.
- The trunk of the penis.
- Scrotum.
Individual arousal points include the neck, abdomen, inner side of the thighs, lips, and back of the head. Sometimes stimulation causes different reactions, from increased desire to irritation, so it is worth being sensitive to this and getting to know your partner from the ground up.
The penis head
The most sensitive erogenous zone in men, in which there are many nerve endings. If they reach the peak of arousal – goes ejaculation. Remember that after ejaculation you should not touch the head – it becomes very sensitive, it can cause unpleasant feelings.
Foreskin of the penis
A large number of nerve endings will allow a man to feel caresses especially keenly. Oral stimulation of the partner with the emphasis on caressing with the tongue is the best. There is no need to hurry – slow movements will make the partner feel more strongly the gamut of emotions that will fall on him. Instead of oral caresses, you can stimulate the frenulum with your hands, but this will require a large amount of lubricant.
The shaft of the penis.
“Universal” part of the penis that responds to oral or hand caresses. It is impossible to guess the tempo right away, so be sure to ask your man what gives you more pleasure. Slow or fast advancing movements are better to apply in a constant rhythm. According to statistics, men prefer it more.
A curious way to give pleasure to your lover is to easily squeeze your penis between the mammary glands so that it can move without effort.
Scrotum
The musculocutaneous “sac” for the testicles of the man.
It has many points that can be stimulated by a woman. Gentle touching, massaging and stroking can provoke an erection quite quickly.
Additional
There are many additional arousal points. You will have to find them yourself, because everyone’s sensitivity is different.
The back of your neck
One of the additional male erogenous zones. It is advised to start with massaging movements, gradually passing to a more insistent. You can nibble, kiss or engage the ear – to massage the lobe, it will cause a moderate excitement and allow you to move smoothly to the next stage. The neck is sensitive, so the caress, directed to it, will have a positive effect.
Foot
A zone that can also be stimulated by a girl for greater arousal of the partner. Here there is almost complete freedom of action. Stroke, scratch, and most importantly, do not tickle. This throws off the mood and the guy may lose his erection.
Hands
Acupuncture is a Chinese medical discipline that works on the human body by pointing needles at specific points on the body. There are acupuncture points on the palms of the hands. Acupuncture is, of course, a wonderful idea, but you can use acupuncture as a gentler version. The pressure on the points should be gentle.
There are several points for increasing potency:
- The lumbosacral plexus.
- A place below the right rib cusp.
- Supracostal area.
- Bottom left of the navel.
- Between the navel and the pubis.
- Testicles. The upper pubic ligament should be rubbed.
Lip contour
One of the most sensitive areas. Loved ones are kissed and in bed, and goodbye, and just like that. It is an expression of love and affection, so a physical and sensual component is put into the action.
- An important detail is the contour of the lips. For a bright result, run the tip of your tongue over it, interspersed with kisses. You can weakly touch with fingertips, face, hands, but most importantly, do as gently as possible, because the erogenous zone in guys is sensitive and cause painful sensations is easy.
On the sides of the lower part of the chest
- A special nerve passes through, on the interaction with which we rely on. If everything is done right – a pleasant sensation will echo in the penis. For girls it also works, but the clitoris will already respond with pleasant sensations and the growing excitement.
- Stroking the area on the sides below the ribs may provoke your partner’s laughter, so press the palm more firmly, so as to feel the unity more. You can kiss or lightly nibble – such things are allowed and bring positive emotions, but the main thing is not to stay long.
Coccyx
- One can start with back massage, slowly going down from the shoulders to the excitable area. The coccyx is rich in nerve endings and is often used for active caressing. You can drive your fingers or tongue, kissing – use all the imagination that is peculiar to you.
Points on the hips
- This refers to the points on the inner side of the thighs that are sensitive to gentle touch. Here’s a tip: Try running your wet fingers from the middle upward, watching your partner. The reaction can be varied. The area is susceptible to tickling. To enhance the experience, you can touch it with your lips, it will excite the man even more and make the continuation more desirable.
How to stimulate erogenous points correctly?
If you treat the erogenous zones in the same way, different guys will not have the same reaction. That’s why you need to know a few small rules.
- It is better not to subject particularly sensitive areas to assertive caresses, but on the contrary, to bestow tenderness. Pain, of course, causes positive emotions in some people, but this is more the exception than the rule.
- Try to feel your partner, to observe, to listen. A man will not always say when he liked something or not, but the body language at these moments is eloquent.
- Avoid tickling. If your partner suddenly giggled – you can kiss the place whose manipulation caused the appearance of such a reaction.
- Erogenous zones are very individual. If a man does not respond to the caress of the lobe, do not think that he does not care about you – most likely this point he “sleeps.
Sexopathologist
Experienced couples experience stagnation in intimate life, boredom. In such cases, doctors advise to “wake up” sleeping erogenous points. You may not have known that your husband is excited by light massage on the bottom of the belly on the sides or stroking the inner side of the knee or elbow. Or, more likely, he didn’t know it himself.
Go on a journey and make many discoveries unknown to you of the sensitive places on your partner’s body. But, don’t forget the rule of feedback – give more than you take.
To sum it up
Sex is an art that you can’t master intuitively, dumping everything on your partner. Explore each other like an unknown ocean, looking for the perfect combination and what brings pleasure. Don’t stop at the usual, because soon it will get boring and intimate life will come to naught at all.